Romans 12:18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.
Most people want to live at peace with each other because it makes life the most pleasant and productive. When people are fighting, someone always gets hurt. Paul adds the words “if it is possible.” Sometimes, we must act in strength and courage against a situation, and this may result in some kind of confrontation. When this type of situation ensues, we can still act in love, but sometimes love must be tough. Justice is important, and this may require the capture and punishment of those who do wrong. Sometimes some people will need to experience pain so that others can live at peace. Paul will talk about that situation briefly at the beginning of ch. 13. But if we have the choice, and if it is in our power to influence the situation, we must choose the path of peace. Some Christians may take this verse (and others) to imply that we should be pacifists and not want war. That is up to each individual’s conscience. There is certainly a place for being peace loving. We can look at this at national or global level, but Paul likely intended this for more of a local level, especially in the church. It is sad to see believers fighting one another, often over trivial matters. One of the parties is unwilling to submit or give up their “rights” or “convictions.” In some situations, it may be better to walk away rather than cause harm to relationships or the mission of the church. Paul was not afraid to confront people who did wrong or who were causing division in the church (see the story of the Corinthian church). It takes wisdom to know when to confront, when to back off, and how to make situations peaceful.
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